I have spent a decent amount of time reading, searching, researching and re-reading several threads on this site. I have also spent time reading as much literature as I can on the websites of Doctor’s and surgeons who provide a solution to penis enlargement. I am 37 years old, married and have children. I have never received a complaint, but rather compliments from women in my past and my wife. I do have my own personal insecurities, which I’m finding mean very little to my wife and most women. Meaning, it’s a bigger deal to me than it is to them. In my search for a solution to my own-personal goal I have narrowed it down to a couple of options, thanks to this site. With enough searching, I have found sad stories, failures and lackluster results with each and every method. Unlike a breast or butt augmentation, we cannot simply choose the size and shape we want. Although it’s not that simple for women, their expectations are much more easily managed. I have some OCD tendencies that will prove to be both a positive and a negative. Any imperfections will haunt me, but I will also be obsessed with aftercare to the T. I’m also not very patient. These are all things I’m praying about and discussing with my wife as we prepare to go down this road.
As it stands, my current stats are :
FL: 3.5”-4”
FG: 4”-4.25”
EL: 6.25”
EG: 5-1/8”
On rare occasions I’ve had girls really love my penis and obsess over me. When I say rare, maybe 2-3 out of a few dozen. None complained. A couple (when I was dumb enough to ask) had exes much larger. My wife, when I met her told me about a long time boyfriend who she felt beat most porn stars. We were drunk, had just met, we weren’t serious yet... but she was being honest.
Although she’s happy, compliments me, enjoys sex... that sticks with me. When we were just hanging out she would also mention guys bulges were hot or would make her horny. She’d want pics of me in boxer briefs or basketball shorts or slacks. I’d chub it up and send them haha. Since I have a fairly small flaccid penis, I have no actual bulge. No dick print. I’ve actually never let her see me without an erection. I’ve never let any woman see me. I’ve let this keep me from a lot of things. It also creates anxiety on a daily basis as I wear slacks and suits daily. I’m straight, but see other men often and feel inadequate. Even just using the restroom or showering brings me down or causes anxiety.
With that said, my wife supports me. She has a breast augmentation and is getting a Brazilian butt lift in December. She understands wanting to have exaggerated gestures. I am looking into options that will allow me a greater flaccid appearance. I want to be the guy with the obvious dick print and want my wife shocked over and over when my pants come off... the same way I am when she’s topless, or wearing something revealing.
I appreciate everyone’s logs, experiences and openness. My two thoughts at the moment are geared towards Ellanse or PMMA. Have to say my two biggest reservations about PMMA are that it’s permanent and that it’s being done in Tijuana. I don’t see that concern expressed much here, but I feel I can’t be the only one. Ellanse reservations are cost and that it’s temporary. Yes, that’s contradicting, but I see both sides of it.
I’m looking forward to interacting more. Once I have made a decision I will also happily share my experience. In the meantime, if anyone has found a way to go from the size I am, to having a ridiculous dick print-share your secret!! Haha!!
As it stands, my current stats are :
FL: 3.5”-4”
FG: 4”-4.25”
EL: 6.25”
EG: 5-1/8”
On rare occasions I’ve had girls really love my penis and obsess over me. When I say rare, maybe 2-3 out of a few dozen. None complained. A couple (when I was dumb enough to ask) had exes much larger. My wife, when I met her told me about a long time boyfriend who she felt beat most porn stars. We were drunk, had just met, we weren’t serious yet... but she was being honest.
Although she’s happy, compliments me, enjoys sex... that sticks with me. When we were just hanging out she would also mention guys bulges were hot or would make her horny. She’d want pics of me in boxer briefs or basketball shorts or slacks. I’d chub it up and send them haha. Since I have a fairly small flaccid penis, I have no actual bulge. No dick print. I’ve actually never let her see me without an erection. I’ve never let any woman see me. I’ve let this keep me from a lot of things. It also creates anxiety on a daily basis as I wear slacks and suits daily. I’m straight, but see other men often and feel inadequate. Even just using the restroom or showering brings me down or causes anxiety.
With that said, my wife supports me. She has a breast augmentation and is getting a Brazilian butt lift in December. She understands wanting to have exaggerated gestures. I am looking into options that will allow me a greater flaccid appearance. I want to be the guy with the obvious dick print and want my wife shocked over and over when my pants come off... the same way I am when she’s topless, or wearing something revealing.
I appreciate everyone’s logs, experiences and openness. My two thoughts at the moment are geared towards Ellanse or PMMA. Have to say my two biggest reservations about PMMA are that it’s permanent and that it’s being done in Tijuana. I don’t see that concern expressed much here, but I feel I can’t be the only one. Ellanse reservations are cost and that it’s temporary. Yes, that’s contradicting, but I see both sides of it.
I’m looking forward to interacting more. Once I have made a decision I will also happily share my experience. In the meantime, if anyone has found a way to go from the size I am, to having a ridiculous dick print-share your secret!! Haha!!
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